Planning a funeral is never easy. It’s an emotional time filled with decisions that no one wants to make, but they matter. Among the many choices—venue, music, words—are the flowers, which can play a quiet but powerful role in offering support, expressing love, and creating a peaceful space to say goodbye.
Whether you’re arranging a service, sending sympathy flowers, or simply showing support to someone grieving, this guide will help you understand how floral arrangements can bring comfort and meaning during a difficult time.
The Role of Flowers at a Funeral
Flowers have long been associated with remembrance. They symbolise the beauty and fragility of life, and they offer a moment of peace and reflection amid sorrow. For many, flowers at a funeral aren’t just tradition—they’re a tribute.
They can reflect the personality of the person who’s passed, create a comforting atmosphere, and show support when words don’t come easily. From classic wreaths to bespoke floral tributes, each arrangement carries its own quiet message.
Types of Funeral Flower Arrangements
Choosing the right arrangement depends on your relationship with the deceased and the type of service being held. Some of the most common options include:
- Casket sprays: Large arrangements placed directly on the coffin. Often chosen by immediate family.
- Wreaths: Circular and symbolic of eternal life, these are displayed on stands or near the coffin.
- Sheaves and posies: Compact, hand-tied arrangements that can be placed at the graveside or taken home.
- Letter tributes: Floral letters spelling out words like “MUM” or “GRANDAD” to add a deeply personal touch.
- Custom tributes: Shaped arrangements (e.g. a football, guitar, or angel wings) to reflect the loved one’s passions or character.
At eFloral, we offer both traditional and custom funeral flower designs, created with sensitivity and respect for the moment.
Appropriate Flower Choices
While there’s no strict rule, certain flowers are traditionally associated with sympathy and remembrance:
- Lilies: Represent peace, purity, and the return of the soul to a place of rest
- Roses: White for reverence, red for love, and yellow for friendship
- Carnations: Long-lasting and elegant, often used in mixed arrangements
- Chrysanthemums: Symbolic of grief and honour in many cultures
- Gladioli and delphiniums: Tall and striking, they add a sense of dignity and grace
Soft colour palettes—such as white, cream, lavender, and gentle pinks—are often chosen for their calming presence.
Flowers for the Family and Friends
If you’re not organising the funeral but want to show support, sympathy bouquets or arrangements delivered to the home are a thoughtful gesture. These flowers are often more understated and designed to offer quiet comfort in the days and weeks following the service.
You might also consider sending a potted plant or a small bouquet with a heartfelt message. Sometimes the smallest gestures carry the deepest meaning.
What to Write in a Sympathy Card
Finding the right words can be difficult. Keep your message short, sincere, and from the heart. A few simple examples:
- “With heartfelt condolences and love.”
- “Thinking of you during this time of sorrow.”
- “In loving memory of a truly special soul.”
- “May the beauty of these flowers bring comfort and peace.”
If you knew the person well, sharing a brief memory or quality you admired can make your message feel even more personal.
Here to Help During Difficult Times
At eFloral, we understand how emotional this time can be. Our team handles every funeral order with care, compassion, and professionalism. We’ll work with you to choose or create arrangements that honour your loved one’s memory with grace.
Whether you need guidance, same-day delivery, or something completely bespoke, we’re here to support you every step of the way.
To explore our range of sympathy and funeral flowers or speak with our florists directly, visit efloral.co.uk or get in touch for personal assistance.